Should girls dress code change or should we teach our sons to respect & value the female sex?
A debatable issue indeed. I personally feel, it should be first, giving the right sanskars to our sons, they should be educated at home to respect others sisters or friends, as they would like their sister or mother to be respected. This itself could solve 80% of the above issue. Yes its also true that the revealing clothes worn by the females certainly arouse the hormones in boys & men, who are then unable to constraint their urges. But then why do all males react to it the same way? Its because of their right upbringing.
Being a woman myself, & a mother of a son, I have instilled the respect of women in my son.
But still I also feel that a woman behind a veil is an enigma & a mystery men love to own & protect. Any man is always possessive about his woman, be it his mother, sister or wife & does not want them to dress to attract attention.
All I can say here is that it's a very sad situation when we hear if even 8 months old girl child or an 80 year old woman are raped. Where is the question is indecent dressing in these cases.
Wake up men, you too gave mother's, wives & sisters, learn to respect us the way we deserve. You bow down your head in reverence to the Goddesses, you have aa rakhi tied in your wrust by your sister, you promise to protect your wife & urs said that heaven is under the feet of your mother.
A debatable issue indeed. I personally feel, it should be first, giving the right sanskars to our sons, they should be educated at home to respect others sisters or friends, as they would like their sister or mother to be respected. This itself could solve 80% of the above issue. Yes its also true that the revealing clothes worn by the females certainly arouse the hormones in boys & men, who are then unable to constraint their urges. But then why do all males react to it the same way? Its because of their right upbringing.
Being a woman myself, & a mother of a son, I have instilled the respect of women in my son.
But still I also feel that a woman behind a veil is an enigma & a mystery men love to own & protect. Any man is always possessive about his woman, be it his mother, sister or wife & does not want them to dress to attract attention.
All I can say here is that it's a very sad situation when we hear if even 8 months old girl child or an 80 year old woman are raped. Where is the question is indecent dressing in these cases.
Wake up men, you too gave mother's, wives & sisters, learn to respect us the way we deserve. You bow down your head in reverence to the Goddesses, you have aa rakhi tied in your wrust by your sister, you promise to protect your wife & urs said that heaven is under the feet of your mother.
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